Healthy Boundaries in Relationships

Healthy boundaries are limitations that develop intimacy. They remove barriers and distance between partners, whilst letting both individuals feel on an emotional level comfortable and safe and secure with the other individual. They additionally enable every person to preserve a sense of self, distinct from their partner. Healthy boundaries offer numerous advantages, such as enhanced self-confidence and dignity. They let you to have a well-balanced relationship, where both companies are listened to and respected, and both companies have equivalent power in the relationship. A sense of safety and empowerment are other essential benefits to healthy boundaries. Sustaining healthy boundaries guarantees your mental, physical, and emotional needs and limitations are not violated. They additionally secure you the independence to be self-asserting. You can honestly say ‘yes’ or ‘no’ without having to suffer from any feelings of guilt or fear for conveying what you need. You can honestly say ‘yes’ or ‘no’ without having to suffer from any feelings of guilt or fear for conveying what you need.

Some instances of healthy boundaries include:

  • Openly articulating what you are and are not comfortable with
  • Telling somebody ‘no’ when they do, ask for, or say something that is beyond  your limits
  • Identifying and sensing that your wants and needs are legitimate and worthy of respect
  • Feeling emotional, mentally, and mentally safe and secure around another person

Some instances of unhealthy boundaries include:

  • refusing or stonewalling to answer or respond to questions in order to control discussions
  • Absence of respect or concern for your feelings and needs
  • Putting somebody else’s needs and enjoyment before your own
  • Enabling people to treat you in a way that will make you feel bad about yourself
  • Continuously suffocating your partner and not letting them  be autonomous

In addition to all that, when you share your wants and needs is another indication that you have established unhealthy boundaries. When you do not express and affirm your needs with your significant other, you are not opening up. This takes away the chance to develop intimacy with your significant other, and for them to develop intimacy with you.

Establishing boundaries can be difficult because it is one thing lots of us are not taught to do. Healthy boundaries can enhance your sense of self and the levels of comfort and ease you feel within your relationship. Boundaries help in building respect and trust in relationships.

In the end, you should remember that you are a different individual from your partner, and for that reason, you have different needs. Healthy boundaries enable both of you to communicate and take responsibility for your separate needs. The approach of establishing boundaries enables you to discover more about and establish intimacy with one another.

Boundaries could be challenging to set up but they are an essential step in enabling you to feel good about your own self and feel good about the relationships in your life. Establishing healthy boundaries with your significant other will help in improving trust, respect, and intimacy within your relationship.


Do you need relationship help?

If you need help with your relationship, contact Bayside Relationship Counselling on 0438 300 634  to discuss your situation and find out how we can help. Whenever you consult with any counselling centre, it is important to get a hold of an experienced and reliable individual where you come across assurance of acquiring confidential counselling services. We assist couples and individuals with their relationships. It is based on the belief in the sustaining power of fulfilling relationships, and the positive impact this has on families and the wider community.